Some more Elf on the shelf Ideas.

Hi hope this finds you all well and life is treating you good. I think I am now back in the land of living and I am recovering from the joys of winter bug no 1 of the season.

I thought I would post some more Elf on the shelf ideas for those who might be looking for some inspiration – Ours have been busy this year, bringing along their two best friends with them – they have been a big hit!

IMG_20181203_231335.jpg Some elf bowling.

IMG_20181204_230038.jpg  This one was a big hit due to the mini donuts – Elf picnic (Cheerios with icing pens/sprinkles on work a treat).



Slow cooker Hot tub.IMG_20181205_224618.jpgIMG_20181206_230756.jpg Elf snap.

Fort Boyard Challenge.IMG_20181208_013720.jpgIMG_20181209_013012.jpg Mister maker in the house.

Elf Twister.IMG_20181210_000012.jpg

If your still stuck for inspiration more ideas can be found at the website project page ‘Elf on the Shelf ideas’ (or follow this link –Elf on the shelf ideas. )

Don’t forget to like, share and comment.

Enjoy emmas xxx

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Cookies and elf on the shelf ideas.

Just a quick one to say Hi and let you know I have just added Oatmeal the projects section under simple Cooking with kids. These are really simple to cook and taste delicious. They also freeze really well if you fancy cooking them up and keeping them for a go to at Christmas time. Though in our house they are normally eaten before they cool down.

So Elfie and mischief have revisited us this Dec, So far :

Day 1: arrival via parcel delivery.

IMG_20171130_211426Day 2: The elf camera has been installed. (This has worked great on our eldest, for behaviour. However the youngest is completely freaked out by it).IMG_20181202_015030.jpgDay 3: Elfie and mischief have been drawing snowmen.IMG_20181203_004930.jpgTonight they will be at the bowling alley.

Enjoy emmas xxx

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Happy first year birthday to my website.

So a YEAR ago today my website went live – wow where does time go. As a result I guess its Happy first year birthday to my website! I started nervous but excited, without a clue (mind you I’m not sure that’s really changed) and have pretty much made it up as I go along!

Created to provide a free service/ information site to other parents, offering parenting ideas and simple affordable Art and craft ideas linked to other social media platforms, I think I have managed to achieve the objective. 53 blogs, 69 projects, over a 1200 visitors later from all around the world (without trying to hard) I am still active and haven’t given up.

I may have temporary slowed down to focus on other things whilst dealing with the seasonal bugs. However over the last year I have enjoyed being creative, creating a website, whilst receiving so many positive comments and feedbacks. Long may it continue. Please continue to follow, like, share and comment (I will read all comments, however please do not be offended and I hope you understand if I don’t post to my website as I will only post comments that pass all security checks to keep my website as safe as I possible as I can for my visitors: this is more important to me than publishing ‘the pats on the backs’).

Along side the website I created several other social media platforms throughout the year though I recently closed my twitter account (as this wasn’t doing much, partly my fault for not being active on it but I have also discovered/learnt that twitter has really been and gone) : My Pin interest account has blown me away with my visitor figures numbers (a lot more than my website, monthly in the plus four figure numbers) I could never ever imagined that many people would view our projects and it is very much leading the way as my top platform for getting our stuff out there. So all is good – Here’s to another year of typing and creating!

 At the moment I have been dealing with a lovely joyful seasonal bug, – severely bored with coughing my guts up one to many times now! So at the moment with other commitments leading the way I am not sure how many new Christmas projects we will create to put on here, I will try but cannot promise as at the moment I feel like I am just surviving the basic tasks of parenting!

So despite it not being December yet, I know there are people looking for some Christmas inspiration. If you are one of them then – please take a look at the Christmas project section from last year. links provided below. Or feel free to share any of your own ideas!

 DIY Project ideas 

Christmas Lanterns.DSC_0506

Simple Christmas trees.DSC_0496

Felt Christmas Decoration.DSC_0494

‘Santa please stop here’ door sign.IMG_20171204_182934


Family Christmas hand wreath.DSC_0518


Easy Christmas Shortbread.IMG_20171219_183906

Snowman decorations.IMG_20171125_161901



Plus make your own Simple homemade wrapping paper.

IMG_0017 And finally if you’re looking for any ideas for this coming Saturday Elf on the shelf ideas. IMG_20171210_003829

Hopefully I will able to update this as we go though out Dec as I have some new ones planned this year, having worked on some new props over the last week.

Enjoy emmas xxx

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Out selling in the community.

Just a very quick blog to say, for the next few weeks I am probably going to be of the grid website wise. As along side attending college (yes I went back to the class room last September) I will be wrapped up in selling my Children art and craft activity packs/ gifts at some great local Christmas craft events. Uh oh its that time of year already, Christmas is everywhere Shockley earlier each year.

This weekend I am at Didcot gift and craft festival, followed by tinks treasure event.

My Company name is the same as my website: emmascreativelove with my main objective to sell simple and affordable arts and crafts: activity packs and gifts.

If you spot me, Please come over – no pressure to buy  !!!!  (though if you do It will be very much appreciated), feel free to say Hi and voice any feedback as it will be greatly appreciated as I am still in the early stages of starting out. It’s all very new, nerve-racking and an ongoing learning experience!

I’m now of to box up the stock.

emmas xxx

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‘Under the sea’ birthday party.

   So the past week has been slightly busy preparing a ‘under the sea arts and crafts’ 6th birthday party. My youngest request created panic and fear how was I going to meet the exact brief? He is quite fussy and had quite a precise wish list – including the party must include a chocolate fish birthday cake (Birthday cakes are always a challenge due to older son allergies, I don’t particularly enjoy baking and have you ever tried to find a safe fun kids birthday cake which is free of may contain – its not possible: this one was made by me to ensure nut/egg free).

As you are probably aware from other blogs he loves the sea, sea creatures and boats. Lucky for me pin interest and Baker Ross came to the rescue with a few ideas to inspire. This was his first proper birthday party with his chosen friends (as he has normally opted for a day out or we have had a small family/friends get together) and I really wanted to make it special! My eldest son always seems to get the extra attention in general despite our determination to give them equal so I guess I was very much led by mummy guilt. Made easier by the facts I love Arts and Crafts. The result were :

 A Spotty Goldfish (made out of stickers and paper plates).IMG_1073.JPG

Stained Glass Tropical Fish / stain glass windows (wooden craft sticks/ tracing paper).IMG_1080.JPG






 Sand shells (Baker ross).DSC_0823.JPG

Under the sea sticker pictures and dotty sticker pictures.


Wooden boats (painting).


Some Fishing.DSC_0800.JPG


A Treasure hunt.DSC_0795.JPG




Pass the parcel.

I can now sigh a sigh of relief as the party received positive feedback, appeared a great success and all children enjoyed leaving proud with their Art work.

GOD am I glad it’s all over and they only have birthdays once a year!!

All individual handmade projects will be posted to the project section in time for anyone interested in giving them ago.

(links will be placed below- just click on the relevant one that interests you!)

A paper plate sticker fish.

Wooden boats.

Stained glass Craft stick tropical fish .

Catch a sea creature activity.





Enjoy emmas xxx

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An Affordable day out in London.

IMG_20181021_163139.jpgThe boys and me love visiting London, having spent a lot of my youth there it feels like I am going home. You either love it or hate it, I have to say now as an adult I love to visit and then enjoy returning back home. We have done a few day trips on a Sunday in the past (for the free parking) taking walks along the Thames, visiting the usual sites, Hamleys, Lego shop, convert garden, Camden, science museum and the National history museum. All are done on a budget – free parking, McDonald’s for lunch (always a safe bet when you have a child with allergy), maybe an underground travel card and focusing on free things to see.

The boys have been asking for a while and we fancy another trip but wanted to do something different. So this time we focused on Greenwich (the last time I visited I think I was a child). I highly recommend it! It was a great day out enjoyed by all and was an affordable day out in London costing the bare minimum.

We drove early Sunday morning into London, Parking near the docklands light railway(five-minute walking distant) . We bought a travel card for £25 approx. (2 adults) under tens travel free on the London transport system zone 1-6. We jumped on the DLR which the boys absolutely loved, as we haven’t done this before they got a completely different view of London especially as we got front row seats on the train. We travelled up to London bridge where we took a small walk up to The tower of London via the Thames. This was a really lovely walk in the sun, short enough for the boys with lots to see. Followed by a KFC for lunch as McDonald’s had closed down.

We then took the DLR to Greenwich cutty Sark, where we took a ten minute free guided tour around the navel site (you can pick these up from the information centre). They are short and informative, one boy enjoyed it the other decided a sit down was more in order. We then went across the road to the Greenwich maritime museum – this was amazing, the boys loved it and made us promise we would revisit! It is a free (donation recommended) hands on very child friendly museum. The highlights were the polar exhibition and the ship simulator where the boys sailed boats in New York and Sydney. We did not allow enough time for the museum but will be going back.

   We then took a walk up the hill to the observatory and were rewarded with amazing views of London. Returning to the station via a walk though the park and around the cutty Sark. We then took  ride on the underground and a bus to Southbank to watch the skaters (an old hangout of mine in my late teenage years). Follow by a walk soaking up the atmosphere of south bank to Westminster bridge. Where we caught a bus / underground train and the DLR  back to the car to return home.

It was a lovely, long and tiring affordable day out. The boys loved exploring London on the different modes of transport and we all highly recommend Greenwich for a day out if you’re looking for something different to do in London. We will be revisiting and look forward to exploring further.

Enjoy emmas xxx

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Bibury Trout Farm

IMG_20181020_125510.jpgWell Hello again, we are over half way though half-term and it is going so quickly! I had meant to drop a line sooner however we have been having a lovely time enjoying each others company : playing (involving the boys loving each other one minute or killing each other the next!), a cinema visit, a trip to London (a blog to follow), Arts and crafts (afraid I can’t share as they are going to be Christmas presents and want to keep a surprise but they involved sewing and woodwork). We also visited Bibury trout Farm, we had a lovely day and thought others might be interested in the recommendation, as I wish we had discovered it sooner. It was great for any age but it would have been a great place to take a toddler or two.

Founded in 1902, Bibury Trout Farm is one of England’s oldest working trout farms set in the pretty historic village of Bibury, in the heart of the Beautiful Cotswolds. Approx 1hr drive from south Oxford. It is open to the public daily, offering the opportunity to walk around some smallish trout pools, The boys really enjoyed spending time watching and feeding the trout. There is also a shop, cafe (We did not visit these but the menu sounded very reasonable in price and interesting if you like trout – lots of meals with trout) and there was a little play park (which we played on for 15 minutes), though keep your eyes out for the dog mess.

There is a ‘catch your own’ Fishery which we did not take part in as any fish you caught, had to be killed and paid for the killing was not for us! However we did watch. If your braver than us it is an ideal opportunity to give fishing ago and you can catch the fish for your lunch or dinner (there were people cooking theirs on the bbq’s beside the fishing for their picnic lunch). This is very much aimed at beginners and children for fun not the pro fisher. The ‘Catch you own’ is only open 10am till 4pm at weekends/ School Holidays. All basic equipment is provided and their staff are on hand if you need them. Please do not rely solely on my review take a look at their website to confirm open time etc. details.

We went on a 2 for 1 tickets (Yeo Valley vouchers – collect tokens of their products and exchange for 2 for 1 day out vouchers to the not so well-known attractions). This meant it worked out as £9.00 for 4 of us plus £1.20 for two cups of fish food totalling £10.20 for all 4 of us. So really worked out as a simple, affordable and reasonable half day out. It would normally be £20.00 for a family ticket (2 adults and up to 3 children) including a bucket of food or £15.00 without food. Dogs are welcome and there is a small free but quiet car park behind the farm down a little lane beside the pub, follow the signs or if you rather there is parking in front on the street (though it was far more busy – space may be limited)


Enjoy emmas xxx

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Magic painting.

   After an exhausting week: one of those when it felt like the whole world is throwing all sorts at me every waking moment and was just challenging this mummy to the limits. Let’s just say my glass of Gin last night was well deserved. As a result this weekend has become a chilled out and a lazy one. Involving lots of playing, painting, cooking and Lego building competitions. My boys creativity and imaginations amaze me every time. The boys have re-found magic painting books, we first discovered these when they were toddlers. (Though I remember having one or two when I was little to). We recently bought some new ones when out and about. IMG_1089.JPG


If you are unfamiliar with these books they are great mess-free painting activity. Giving your child the chance to explore painting with very little setting/clearing up needed. Which we all appreciate at times. It is simple and affordable, you don’t need to have any paints or think up any ideas of what to paint. You simple dip a brush (often provided with the book) into water, brush it over the black and white patterns and then there is an element of surprise as you wait for the colours to magically appear. The trick is not to use too much water and keep the brush clean. The books would make good Christmas presents if anyone is looking for creative ideas not just limited to young children. IMG_1083.JPG

The books we used this time were usbourne ones. These were not particularly cheap despite being reduced and having a voucher. However the paper was high quality, they had good pictures for older children and they did produce bright colours. Though you can easily find similar books at ‘the works’ or poundland. The boys really enjoyed relaxing with these, thought they were good fun and enjoyed guessing what colours the pictures would be.


Hope you all have a great week.

Enjoy emmas xxx


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Defined by a label- living with severe food allergies.


So as a follow on to my recent School and separation anxiety.  blog. I have finally got the courage to write another blog that is very personal. Something I try very hard to avoid talking about (though in reality its near impossible) as I do not want it to define me, my son or family. There is so much more to us as a family and we do not want it to control or dictate our lives. Though the reality is it does, however much we try. People always  have questions to ask, which is only right to answer.

         ‘Defined by a label’ – I am one of those allergy mum’s!

If you have been watching the news recently you maybe aware of the case being held against ‘pret a manger’ in regards to  Natasha Ednan-Laperouse death. If the recent news has told us anything, the world of Allergies is still very much misunderstood and more knowledge is needed to support those living with severe life threatening allergies.

So I have mentioned before in previous blogs that one of my sons suffers from severe allergies, He is Anaphylaxis to all Nuts (not just peanuts as many assume) and Eggs.

I am essentially a very lucky and thankful mum to two wonderful, gorgeous cheeky boys one is 8 years old space obsessed, Lego mad and a secret mad scientist. Who has Life threatening food allergies. His 5-year-old brother on the other hand thinks he is a superhero captain who is at one with mud, anything creative and the outdoors. He appears to have been dealt the lucky card so far escaping any allergies of his own. On the surface so far as a rule life has been a breeze for him.

In 2012 ‘a label’ was placed on my then 2-year-old eldest son and us as a family that is hard to hide from. I detest the word ‘label’ and everything that can be associated with it. I actually hate in many ways the fact that we were given labels ‘oh he’s the boy with the allergies’, ‘ oh that is the mum with the allergy son’ more than the actual Allergies themselves. For me and my son it has been harder to deal with the labels given and assumptions made than living with the actual allergies. Society in general is quick to judge, past comment, make assumptions and create those theories.

SEVERE Food allergies present many challenges it is a type of disability, and exclusion is something you learn to live with. He has lived with these most of his life. As a family we have learned to live with it as best as you can.

NO – We did not choose them? It is not a choice!

YES- We would do absolutely anything to not have Allergies in our lives.

If there was a cure we would be the first in the line.

When my son asked me – Why me? I answered honesty I don’t know, he was absolutely shocked and distraught when i said if i could i would chop of both my arms and legs if it didn’t mean he had to live with them.

From 6 weeks my eldest suffered with severe eczema from head to foot and started to show immediate reactions to food when we were weaning him. At two he was diagnosed with allergies to milk, soya, egg, later on he was diagnosed with all nuts , mustard and sesame. After having his first serious reaction to Eggs at 9 mths. He has since outgrown the milk, soya, mustard and sesame allergies with the help of food challenges and using what is known as a food ladders.

However he still lives with Severe life threatening All nuts and Egg allergies and probably will for the rest of his life.

   He had his first severe anaphylactic aged 2 and has had a few more since alongside mild/ moderate reactions on numerous occasions. Sometimes we have known what has caused them other times not.

The early signs he had allergies were (though we didn’t know it at the time) as a baby he suffered from colic, reflux, bad tummy ache, lovely slimy green poos, weak immune, pale skin, sunken eyes, eczema and refusing to feed as a baby. We knew he was in pain however had no idea how to help or what the cause was.

At the time we knew we shouldn’t just listen to our GP who just wasn’t interested saying it was probably just Reflux and he would outgrow it. There was no mention it could be allergies or intolerances however our gut told us different as there seem to be no simple cure for his reflux, eczema and obvious pain. However we struggled to find answers. I have heard on average it can take up to 4 years for a child to be correctly diagnosed. For his eczema we were sent away with steroid creams and told it is what it is, basically just get on with it. The steroids just seem to make it worse.

Luckily for us we had an amazing Health visitor who stepped in and referred us to a Eczema Clinic at 6mths, it was here that they instantly took one look at him and we learnt his eczema was probably caused by food allergies and the environment. After skin pricks and blood tests, milk was removed from his diet and the eczema went away within two weeks. literally I stopped feeding he stopped screaming, it was like a miracle. But this wasn’t to be the end of it.

Over the next few years he had many reactions, resulting in hospital visits some via ambulance, he became allergic to other foods confirmed by skin pricks, reactions and blood tests ( we were to learn that he didn’t just need to consume them they could be caused by touch and were Airborne) and we finally found a brilliant doctor at the allergy clinic. It wasn’t just eczema we had to deal with it was now food allergies to. We were told some Food allergies he would outgrow and some he would probably never outgrow (they have given him 1 in 1000 chance of outgrowing the nut allergy to this day).

Antihistamines, inhalers and adrenaline auto-injectors became part of our lives and go everywhere with us. We also learnt he may not just have instant reactions but it is possible to have delayed reaction (up to 72 hrs after first contact) and repeat reactions to the same reaction.

It’s not a club we asked to join, or one I ever expected to be part of but I have the pleasure of being given the unwanted label of an allergy mum. It often seems that unless you happen to know someone who has a severely allergic child, you are on a lonely path without a map. You end up using the words ‘Anaphylaxis’ and ‘epi-pens’ way to much even when you don’t want to, to the point of boredom, they become everyday vocabulary. Allergies have an emotional impact on your lives, you have to learn to cope with your fears and hide the tears. It affects the whole family. Having an anaphylactic child takes the stress of living with allergies to the extreme.

Anaphylaxis is a life threatening condition. Our child’s safety is literally in our hands that is scary!

– I often wonder can I keep my child safe or even get him into adulthood in one piece.

– Will we recognise a severe reaction quick enough and act fast enough?

– Will we know what to do ?

– Will I even be there?

– Am I likely to overreact and give the adrenaline unnecessarily?

– understanding experts opinions vary a lot. you are the one who has to weigh opinions up against others verses your Childs history.

– You spend many an hour getting as much information as you can, to give your child the right support and you the confidence in your decisions.

Research into the reason why children die from Anaphylaxis concludes that factors at play our recognising how severe the reaction was and adrenaline is often not given quick enough. Constantly being aware and reacting quickly is undoubtedly a vital factor in keeping our child safe. We know adrenaline auto – injectors (often known as Epi-pens) are life saving if given quickly and correctly because they work instantly to reverse the symptoms of an anaphylactic reaction. normalizing blood pressure and circulation to the body organs.

In short it is better to give a unneccessory dose of adrenaline than not to have used it when it was needed. We also know they don’t always work alone (often they only give you time to get to a hospital where additional help is often needed including your child being pumped full of steroids) and they are not always a magic solution, Sometimes there is no stopping or reversing the anaphylaxis reaction or the pens just dont work for some reason in some cases. An anaphylactic reaction is alarming to witness mostly because of the sudden speed with which it occurs. Watching your child turn blue struggling to breath and becoming non-responsive is scary beyond belief especially as the reality is you have no control over the outcome and knowing it can be life threatening. resulting in the possibility of spending time in Children critical care units or at worse intensive care. This is all caused by food, which is essential for survival and should be seen as something to enjoy.

Having a child with a food allergy has a great impact on quality of life, creating understandably anxieties for the present and the future. You spend your life reading labels. The reality is that Ingredients labels can be frustrating. It is frustrating to find out what actually goes into a simple biscuit or cake. The ‘contains’ or ‘allergy information’ labels on packaging do make shopping easier but even when you have been doing it for years and our an experience label reader. It’s easy to make mistakes if you are not always on guard. Its annoying when you enter a shop or restaurant to see spills or loose food that might cause a reaction or to be  faced with someone who does not appear to care.

The ‘May contain’ debate – we as a family despair at this label, it is the most unhelpful and contentions statement that can be written on a food product. It is unhelpful because I want to know does it? or does it not? contain any nuts not that it might!

It is also contentious because in our society/culture some believe that manufacturers are just covering themselves against being sued. However when it comes to ‘may contain’ evidence suggest that there is a 1 in 3 chance that the allergy is present. So its like playing Russian roulette. There is a small but significant risk that exists which cannot be ignored Yes as a result we miss out on foods that could potentially be safe but the risks dictates are choice. Seeing as our son who has had two anaphylaxis reactions to ‘may contain’ items we avoid at all costs now ( Of all things Tin tomatoes and ice cream being the culprits ‘may contain’ Tree nuts / Hazelnuts).

You feel like your child’s life is in your hands as you shop for food. In short food shopping is a huge challenge. However the reality is there is food everywhere – there are few environments that do not include food. This makes going anywhere harder: visiting friends and family, socializing, Farms, Zoos, eating meals or snacks out, Ice creams in the park are to name a few.

Whilst bringing up an allergy child we have experienced every emotion going as parents Felt scared, fearful (for the present and the future teenage years), angry, guilty, anxious, in denial (it took us a long time to fully come to terms with and accept the reality of living with allergies) and at times felt completely hopeless. Wondered does anyone really understand? It can be a lonely business and stressful as parents and for a child living with it.

Asking have I done anything wrong?

Blaming ourselves,

Have I done everything in my power to try to prevent allergies developing?

Its heartbreaking but we can not allow it to consume the here and now or the years ahead. It is not our fault, we are not to blame and its as simple as that! Over the years both myself and husband have had to deal with our own nightmares however it does becomes manageable. Dealing with family and friends offers its own challenges, some are fantastic and offer endless support, whilst others will try to find answers and give you advice, whether you want it or not! A few will make you question whether they have heard you and actually get it. Awkward situations make you feel like a fussy over-protective mum, adding to which there is concern a friend is actually helping you out or trying to offer support. The last thing you want to do is cause offence by checking for potential risks. It is especially frustrating as a mum when others do not take it seriously, roll their eyes, or confuse a serious food allergy with food intolerance.

There are so many key moments in a child’s life that are made harder by allergies

A big challenge to overcome is trusting other people to look after your child, if they will have them on their own and don’t have fear themselves. It takes a great leap of faith to trust someone to provide food for your child or childcare. One thing you learn quickly that it is essential that you have to be over-protective in certain situations – Supervision against risk. However when others offer to produce safe foods or have your child alone for a few hours you feel no end of gratitude.

Holidays present another issue, they need extra planning and in some cases a lot, Allergies dictate where you can go, concerns over language barriers, the medical care available, Aeroplanes are scary – What if they have a reaction in the air? Nuts on board planes present an issue. To top it all of you pay a premium on Travel Insurance costing you more.

School holds many fears and issues to overcome from snacks to, school lunches, staff training, medicine at school (who do you trust?), lunch time supervision, no swapping or sharing, school trips, will they be bullied or teased because of their allergies? play dates, parties (To stay or not to stay? were they not invited because of their allergies? birthday cakes present high risks), clubs and sports.

Exclusion is a big issue you have to deal with. often your child will be left out or presented with something different (those this is meant with the best intention to include him it can often actually exclude and make him feel different). Sometimes in your head you question- hang on a minute you know about his allergies why do you still exclude him? There is no magic solution, however we are very lucky to have some amazing friends and parents at my son’s school who go above and beyond. Having friends who have shared an understanding of what we are going though has been my lifeline at times, offering comfort and reassurance We truly appreciate this as we know the challenges it presents. As parents all we want is inclusion for him, as normal as possible childhood with the same opportunities as others his age. Inclusion and not exclusion is a big thing !!!

There is a fine balance between allowing your child a normal life and keeping them safe!

As a mum I have also had to deal with the fear of having an another allergic child after my eldest. It turned out this was not the case, however you spend 9mths paranoid and the early years of the second childs life worrying. Most of the theories you get told behind preventing your child against allergies in my own personal opinion are untrue and it is just a guessing game still. One of my births was natural (eldest), one was c-section (youngest). One was breastfed (eldest) one was bottled (youngest). I ate nuts in my first pregnancy because I was a big nut eater before allergies entered our lives. However I did not in my second. Personally I think there are no real conclusive answers to preventing allergies it’s just pot luck!

I worry alot about my youngest needs,

does he get enough attention as it feels like his brother gets all the attention sometimes?

– Does he feel it’s all about his brother?

-does he feel he gets all the special attention?

-Does he get enough himself?

-Does he feel any burden or responsiblity or anxiety living with a brother with allergies?

Does he feel any resentment due to denied foods that he likes but can’t have due to his brother (he loves eggs and only eats them out the house away from our eldest)?

As a family we try our hardest to gain a realistic acceptance and understanding of living with allergies. So we can all enjoy life to the full. We have tried to give our sons as normal as possible childhoods despite allergies. We take days out, holidays and eat meals out.

As parents we try to teach him how to face the dangers calmly, whilst sometimes containing our own panic so he can learn by our example and help him to cope practically with whatever life throws his/our way. Theres no doubt that food allergies can be worrying. I’d be lying if I told you any different. The risks are certainly manageable with the right support, knowledge and understanding. Everyday we are trying/ learning how to raise our son in an atmosphere of safety and stability. We try to give him the tools to empower him to decide independently in situations where food is present. How to take his medication and to accept his condition as just something to be lived with.

It’s the hours between food that really matter.

Sometimes the support and help is hard to come by

(those who have travelled down the allergy road will know this only to well).

Gp’s struggle to suppor families in line with their allergy clinics, information on the television and internet can be portrayed incorrectly or questionably. Creating stereotypes. As he grows older increased independence brings fear. Will he be responsible enough about his allergies? when should he carry his own medicines? will he take chances or risks with his allergies?

In short : No matter how well we manage our Childs allergies and try to help him on his way to looking after himself with confidence.

We would all love a cure to be rid of the daily threat to their lives.

emmas xxx

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Rushmere country park.

      If you are anything like us, you may be looking for something free to do at the weekends or you may have already started planning for Half term activities (I’m personally not that organised yet- but i know some people are already thinking about it) whilst the weather is still on the better side I think most of us want to get outdoors. Before we all get trapped indoors with the freezing and wet weather. Apart from the change in temperature I really love this time of year. Autumn brings with it amazing colours, crisp air and if we are lucky beautiful blue skies. One of my favourite things is taking a walk with my family, watching my boys exploring, burning of some energy and enjoying the outdoors with big smiles on their faces.

One place I thought people might be interested to hear about/visit that we have been to recently is Rushmore Country Park

( Heron View Visitor Centre, Linslade Road, Heath & Reach, Bedfordshire LU7 0EB)

   I highly recommend it to any local mums looking to get their children outdoors, costing next to nothing (£3). It’s approx 1 hr from South Oxfordshire (Between Milton Keynes and Leighton Buzzard). It is a lovely woodland for children to explore with hidden fairy doors, a HUGE (FAST) slide, wooden sculptures and a giant chair. The boys loved scooting/walking though the forest exploring what surprise was around each corner. There are various walks to follow, we personally did not feel these were clear to follow, signage was poor! However that aside we took a short half an hour walk/scoot around a circuit which took us past some big sculptures and fairy doors.

    Near the car park there is a visitor centre and cafe (we did not visit these as we arrived after they were shut so cannot comment on them but apparently there is breath taking views from the cafe), some toilets and a small play area where you will find one slightly hidden at first big (fast slide) for the over 5’s. Alongside the fairy doors this was the high light for the boys.

It Is all FREE to walk around and the car park is £3 to park all-day. Do take the correct change, as they only accept cash and you pay on the way out at the unmanned exit barrier. Making this a very reasonable, relaxing day out for all.

Please double-check the latest information for opening times, prices and facilities before leaving home at their website.

Enjoy emmas xxx

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